Creating that Bond
1. Kangaroo Care: This technique involves cradling the newborn infant between the breasts in the kangaroo position. Traditionally used with premature infants to mock an incubator the benefits are present with all newborns.
2. Sensitive Period: An optimal time for parents and baby to bond is directly following the birth. Many hospitals whisk the baby away to perform a few routine procedures. If mother and baby are healthy it is a good idea to consider discussing having the new baby stay with the mother after the birth for a while. Have the newborn placed on mother’s abdomen and the baby will intrinsically scoot toward the breast. It is physically beneficial for mother to begin breastfeeding as soon as possible.
3. Breastfeeding: The health benefits of breast-feeding are huge and this intimate form of contact also contributes to bonding. Involve Dad by allowing him to sit close for eye-to-eye contact and place a gentle hand on the baby.
4. Massage Therapy: This remedy is helpful to any human being, including infants. There are specific techniques to infant massage that use certain strokes and varying pressure to manipulate and stipulate the infant’s muscles and ligaments to achieve increased blood flow and improved circulation to benefit the child. Learning about these methods or contacting a certified infant masseuse can be helpful especially for an ill, blind, or deaf child. Gentle, warm, loving strokes on the body are all that is necessary for benefits to the newborn. Try giving the infant a massage after a bath or before bedtime to help him or her relax and sleep.
5. Playing, Rocking, Snuggling, Bathing: These day-to-day routines are the fundamental building blocks of a strong relationship between caregiver and infant. Be sure to include loving skin-to-skin contact in these activities. Hearing the caregiver’s voice and making eye contact also play roles in bonding and foster healthy newborn development.
The importance of touch for newborn development is indisputable. Gentle touch, preferably skin-to-skin, stimulates the brain and helps the infant to feel loved and secure which will lead to an amazing connection. Creating a bond with your newborn will help lay the foundation for that child to build healthy relationships in the future.